Dear Mom,
Do not lose control of the only person that you can control – yourself. To give into anger or resort to resolving a conflict in an uproar will only cause more loss of control. To stay in control when everything is out of control takes divine control. God is with you sweet mom, and will give you the wherewithal to handle situations in a composed manner. When I was young and pushed to the limit, I’d lock myself in the washroom, pray and calm down long enough to act like an adult and then carry on… and if you ask God to help you… He will help you too. Talk to Him in every crisis; He knows how to solve them.
Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control. Proverbs 25:28